Thursday, September 27, 2007

Acha Septriasa & Irwansyah - Ada Cinta (OST Love Is Cinta)


Ucapkanlah kasih
Satu kata yang kunantikan
Sebab ku tak mampu membaca matamu
Mendengar bisikmu

Nyanyikanlah kasih
Senandung kata hatimu
Sebab ku tak sanggup
Mengartikan getar ini
Sebab ku meragu pada dirimu

Mengapa berat ungkapkan cinta
Padahal ia ada dalam rinai hujan
Dalam terang bulan juga dalam shedu sedan
Mengapa sulit mengaku cinta padahal ia terasa
Dalam rindu dendam hening malam cinta terasa ada

Friday, September 21, 2007

Nuthin Much To Say.. Its Ramadhan


helo there again..
nothin much to say.. just visitin this blog pages.. after a long while.. as i always said.. right!
the last 2 week seems like a slow and normal week.. i've done nothin special.. and i've been doin the same thing all over again.. works seem to be okay.. havin a couple of hiccups along the way.. ;)
did i mention that muslims are havin a ramadhan now?
yep.. its posa time.. as ramadhan comes every year.. i did my posa as all muslim have to do.. we ate only after the sun go down.. and we stand hungrily when the sun goes up.. its a good thing, religously and physically.. hey.. i do decreased my consumption of foods in this month.. seriously.. :P
aha.. a couple day before, i did knew this 1 person.. alha is the name.. and she seems very innocent in life.. didnt know that how these kind of person could manage to live in this crazy and cruel world.. anyway, we do chats a lil and i knew shes actually really a nice person.. i did gave her a couple of word of wisdom.. and hopefully she manages to live her life well.. insya allah.. err.. did i mention that shes a cutie too? har har! wait till my wife knew bout this.. but seriously.. shes a good girl..
enuff of my social life..
the govt have declared in 2008 budget tabled last 2 weeks that all govt servant wouldnt get any bonuses this year.. yep!! :(
this is 1 major thing to ponder about.. the govt in history has never taken this step and this will become a major issues in the upcoming election of the country.. its not because that all we govt servant think is money (i do think bout it!) but it is the step that has never been done.. all family are waitin for this bonuses, and now they had to look for another sources for this comin holidays (eidulfitri/deepavali/christmas).. hmm.. i cant think the reason they do this..
hopefully, we will had a happy holidays this year.. amin!
k, think thats all..
SELAMAT MENYAMBUT RAMADHAN AL MUBARAK!!
may GOD gives us wisdom and prosperity during this month.. amin!

Thursday, September 13, 2007

What Are You Afraid Of?

Faidzal, your primary fear is not being good enough

Your fears are strongest when it comes to failure, not measuring up to your own standards, or embarrassing yourself in front of other people. When you are afraid of not being good enough, you are allowing your insecurities to take control.

Your fear can present itself in a variety of ways. First of all, it's likely that you're your own worst critic. You're probably very judgmental of both your actions and your personality traits. You may also worry that others will mock your efforts if they are less than perfect. Individuals with this fear tend to hate public speaking and other responsibilities that would force them into the limelight. Unlike most people, types like you typically prefer to be in the shadows. Perhaps you feel it's safer there. After all, if you don't attract attention to yourself, no one is likely to put you under the microscope and find you lacking.

Believe it or not, there are certain benefits that can come along with this particular fear. For one, you're unlikely to embarrass yourself very often because you don't usually put yourself in situations where it would be a possibility. Also, because you're more concerned with your level of performance than most people, you're likely to be a diligent and dedicated worker. This is true for your personal projects, as well as in your professional life. You're probably also a great learner because you're the type of person who doesn't feel comfortable not knowing things. If you had your way, you might even want to be the expert on everything.

Still, because this fear is a large one for you, its negative effects are likely to outweigh the positive ones. When you let fear take hold you might find yourself feeling inadequate and tentative. This lack of confidence can drain your energy and even lead to depression.

Whether you're most afraid of social blunders, academic mistakes, or workplace gaffes, your fear of not being good enough may keep you from truly shining in your endeavors. Because you tend to take failures very personally, you may avoid trying things that you don't think you can get right the first time. By shying away from new challenges, you can keep yourself from broadening your horizons at work or in your personal life. At its worst, the fear of not being good enough can leave you paralyzed by self-doubt.

Fortunately, most people don't let their fears grow to these levels. Still, everyone can use advice on how to lessen fear's negative influence so that they can truly enjoy life.

Whos Your Movie Star Double?


Faidzal, your movie star double is Owen Wilson

A free spirit like you needs to be played by someone who knows what it's like to carve out his own niche. That's why Owen Wilson would be great for the part. Whether he's acting in memorable oddball roles like Hansel in Zoolander or co-writing offbeat scripts like Rushmore or The Royal Tenenbaums, Owen knows how to create his own arc to stardom in Hollywood.

Back in high school, were you the one listening to bands that others hadn't discovered yet, or branching out with political or fashion statements of your own? How about raising quirky questions that stumped your teachers? Well, now that you've grown up some, people are starting to value your individuality and your creative way of looking at the world. Or at least, they will soon. So who better to play you in the role of your life than Owen? Doesn't it seem he was made for the part?

Thursday, September 06, 2007

MY [dream]CAR







The Subaru Impreza is a compact car that was first introduced by Subaru in 1993.

"Impreza" is a coined word, deriving from an originally Italian word, impresa, meaning a feat or achievement. In Polish, "Impreza" means "party", "event" or "show".

The Impreza was introduced after the popular Leone/Loyale was cancelled with the aging EA series engine. The Impreza was introduced with the popular EJ series engine found in the larger Subaru Legacy.

The Impreza was introduced as an updated competitor to other Asian vehicles Toyota Corolla, Honda Civic, Nissan Sentra, Mitsubishi Lancer and Mazda 323, however the Impreza is the only vehicle in this class to offer AWD and Subaru made this feature standard equipment in 1996, a distinction that is still unique to this day.

Subaru chose to continue their longstanding traditional use of the boxer engine in the Impreza, as well as their other products, to simplify the powertrain implementation of all wheel drive and because of the natural smoothness of the engine design. According to Subaru, because the engine sits inline with the transmission, instead of being offset, as can be commonly found by other FWD and AWD vehicles, body roll is minimized. The weight of the engine and transmission are balanced instead of being offset, which causes the weight of the engine and transmission to be unbalanced in the engine bay in other vehicles. The boxer engine also affords a low center of gravity because the engine sits low in the engine bay and close to the ground, as opposed to other vehicles, allowing the vehicle to stay more stable in moderate to high speed manovers. Other manufacturers attempt to counteract the offset weight by making their powertrains weight evenly distributed, which overall causes the powertrain to be heavier than the Subaru layout, which is lightweight from the beginning, having being manufactured from aluminum. The boxer design also provides perfect vibration mitigation due to the fact that the movement of each piston is exactly countered by the corresponding piston in the opposing cylinder bank, eliminating the need for a harmonic balancer attached to the front of the engine at the crankshaft. Torque steer is also reduced with this type of powertrain layout. This is achieved by having the front driveshafts being of equal weight and length, and extend from the transmission to the front wheels at almost perpendicular from the transmission.

2.0L boxer DOHC, 4 cylinder, 16 valve
Turbocharged
Hood scoop air intake with Intercooler
Block and heads, Aluminum alloy. open deck design, with cast iron cylinder liners
Sequential multi-port fuel injection
Bore: 92x75mm, 3.62x2.95"
227HP@6000rpm, Torque: ft lbs 217@4000rpm
8.0:1, Maximum boost: 13.5 PSI
5 speed (MT5)
Front: 11.4" vented twin-caliper piston.
Rear: 10.3" solid disc
4 channel, 4 sensor ABS with EBD electronic brake force distribution
16x6.5" 5spoke alloy,
5 lug, 5x100 pattern
205/55R16 all season
Potenza RE92

7 Deadly Sins Report

7 Deadly Sins Report

Faidzal, you're more sinful than the average person. And the sin you're most guilty of is

Greed

In this context, Greed is defined by the endless pursuit and driving desire to accumulate wealth and material possessions. Greed is in overdrive when money, and things you can attain with money, take on a primary focus in your life's desires and pursuits, overshadowing your personal relationships and preventing you from ever feeling like you have enough in life.

Historically, Greed has been seen as the misguided drive to accumulate wealth and possessions in the pursuit of happiness and fulfillment. The Renaissance author Sir Francis Bacon said, "If money be not thy servant, it will be thy master." In a religious context, Greed was seen as the prioritizing of earthly possessions over spiritual endeavors. There were numerous prophets who warned against the criminal and immoral behavior that unchecked Greed can lead to — specifically with leaders and people in great positions of power. Biblical allegories warned that the more you possess, the more Greed you're likely to have, because you'll start to worry about others taking what you've worked to acquire. This, in turn, will prevent you from accumulating still more. And this can lead to an endlessly destructive cycle. The alluring power of Greed was seen to drive humans to being slaves of their own possessions — and that would prevent them from being humble servants of God.

Modern-day psychology tends to see excessive Greed as one cause of unhappiness, and yet our society rarely sees Greed as a problem to treat — unless it leads to criminal behavior or a complete disruption of family life. In general, though, our culture tends to encourage Greed, though we tend to reframe it as the pursuit of success or luxury. Still, "Greed" unmasked is generally seen as a selfish and undesirable trait — even if some degree of greed on a smaller scale can also help motivate people to action. Still, some would even go so far as to consider Greed potentially dangerous, as many crimes, such as robbery and murder, are often inspired by Greed.

Considering the mixed messages people receive from society, it's no wonder people can feel conflicted. In a world where you're encouraged to "Keep up with the Jones', get a new car before your other one gives out, by one brand name over another, you're also simultaneously asked to pretend that you really need these possessions as opposed to merely wanting them. You're asked to pretend that your motivation is more about security than blatant desire to have everything you want and to be superior to others.

Despite these mixed messages and ambiguities, though, your particularly high score on Greed indicates that you may be falling into the trap of valuing wealth and luxury above all else. If you aren't careful, your drive to achieve riches may ultimately be your downfall, possibly leading to immoral or illegal action, or at least an endless and futile cycle of wanting more and more, which can lead to mental anguish and isolation. Beware of prioritizing your possessions above all else and allowing the pursuit of luxury to disconnect you from yourself and others.

Excessive Greed can take the form of ruthless competition, workaholism, fraud, stinginess, hording, or gambling. And however it manifests, it can be a detriment to the amount of pleasure you experience in your lifetime. Often, we become entrapped by Greed because we believe that it is the path to happiness, when all too often it leads to the exact opposite (remember, money can't buy happiness). If your idealization of wealth has led you to a life of unfulfilling priorities, see the Greed section in "The Seven Deadly Sins and You," which reveals which antidote you can use to help yourself achieve a healthier, more satisfying balance to this aspect of your life.

The 7 Deadly Sins and You
While your deadliest sin is certainly the one to address first, you're not completely off the hook for the remaining six sins. In this section, you'll find out how you scored on each sin, discover how these sins have been viewed throughout the centuries, and find out which virtues you can cultivate to temper your historically "sinful" ways.

Greed
Greed is the drive to accumulate wealth and to live a life of excess. It causes you to prioritize worldly possessions above all else and allow the pursuit of money to overshadow your personal relationships.

The sin of Greed has been denounced throughout history. For example:
In the Greek myth of King Midas, the king asks the god Dionysus to make everything Midas touched turn to gold. When this "gift" was bestowed upon the king, he ended up turning his wife and children into beautiful, but unsatisfying, statues of solid gold. He had all the wealth he could ever want, but nothing more. He soon asked to be released from this curse.
In the New Testament, Jesus says "a rich man will find it hard to enter the kingdom of Heaven" (Matthew 19:24), because, "No servant can be the slave of two masters; for either he will hate the first and love the second, or he will be devoted to the first and think nothing of the second. You cannot serve God and Money" (Luke 16:13).
Aristotle philosophized on the virtue of having the right attitude toward money, which he called "liberality." He espoused the value of using money wisely, and unbegrudgingly giving it to the right people in the right amounts (he believed that the right amount relates to the proportion of the giver's resources). He believed in striking a balance with money, never squandering it self-indulgently, nor hoarding it, nor gaining it through unjust means.

You scored 8 on the deadly sin of Greed, which indicates that you are more enticed by this sin than most test takers. Your higher score is a sign that Greed may be a weakness that overpowers your more altruistic impulses. If you value wealth and luxury above all else, the pursuit of money may be actually diminishing your satisfaction in your current life rather than enhancing it. In order to combat excess Greed, you may want to balance it with its antidote: Generosity.

Generosity as the Antidote to Greed
Excessive Greed can negatively impact you, but it also hurts others. If you hoard more than your fair share of the world's finite resources, you are necessarily causing someone else to experience poverty or lack. The Tickle Research Group found that people who score highly on Greed tend to admit to having low levels of generosity, which has been traditionally thought of as the antidote to Greed. Thus, cultivating a generous attitude and sharing your good fortunes with those less fortunate can both help others and remind you that you are interconnected to the well-being of your fellow humans.

Here are some ways you can develop a healthy level of Generosity:
Give a percentage of your income to charitable organizations and causes that help those in need. Biblical tradition recommends 10 percent.
When determining how much of your life you'll dedicate to work and the pursuit of additional wealth, remember to balance these elements of life with time for loved ones and spiritual reflection or self-actualization.
Approach your finances with integrity, investing in a socially responsible manner and earning your income in moral ways that enhance the lives of others

Lust
Lust is the unrestrained, insatiable expression of sexual desire, fantasy, and conquest. In the extreme, it can cause you to think about or pursue sex so much that your work life, you relationships, and your self-actualization suffer.

Lust is a sin that has been advised against throughout time. For example:
On the topic of sensual and sexual pleasure, Aristotle saw unchecked lust as reprehensible. He believed that the person overrun with lust is easily distressed by the absence of sex and will choose sexual pleasure above all else. He likened this behavior to that of a spoiled child's, and prescribes the lustful person to temper their lust with reason.
In the Hebrew Bible tells the story of King David's children, Tamar and her half-brother Amnon. In the story, Amnon is obsessed with his desire for Tamar. He pretends to be ill, and asks that she be the one to bring him his meals. When she comes to his room, he makes sexual advances toward his sister. When rebuked on the basis of immorality, he overpowers her and rapes her, and then, afterward, throws her out on the streets. Two years later, their brother Absalom arranges to have Amnon murdered in retribution for his violent, lustful act.
One Jewish legend tells the story of a saintly rabbi, Matya ben Heresh, who is tempted by Satan by a beautiful woman who appears everywhere he turns. The rabbi, in a desperate attempt to avoid giving into his lust and displeasuring God, puts out both of his eyes with fiery nails. Satan withdrew, overwhelmed by the rabbi's piety, and God healed the rabbi's wounds.

You scored 7 on the deadly sin of Lust, which indicates that this sin tempts you more than it does the average test taker. Your higher score demonstrates that Lust may be overpowering your ability to use reason and good judgment in your sex life. If you find yourself spending more time pursuing or fantasizing about sex than you do connecting nonsexually with others or working toward your goals and aspirations, you may want to consider applying the antidote to Lust: Temperance.

Temperance is the Antidote to Lust
Temperance, self-control, discretion, and caution are all useful methods of keeping lust in check and making sure your expression of sexual desire is healthy and ethical. The Tickle Research Group found that people who score highly on Lust tend to admit to having low levels of sexual caution. Historically, chastity is viewed as the antidote to Lust. While modern approaches to physical pleasure are generally more liberal, applying self-control around sex is one way to keep your lust in check.

Following are three things you can do to achieve sexual temperance:
Avoid situations that will tempt you. If you're in a monogamous relationship and you develop feelings for someone else, do whatever you can to avoid that person and tend to your relationship. If you wish to abstain from having impulsive sex with strangers and you know this is going to be difficult, put things in the way of this behavior. Set rules for yourself, try not to drink excessively when going out to meet new people, and bring a reliable friend who will reinforce your wishes in moments of weakness.
Seek positive and legitimate ways to satisfy your desires, within the context of your own moral guidelines. Most modern psychologists are advocates of masturbation (unless it's an addictive behavior), fantasizing, and having sex with a consenting partner. While traditionally these are seen as lustful sins, the contemporary view is that these acts are not unethical, and they can help prevent sexual violence such as rape, adultery, and incest.
Use your reasoning ability to consider if your sexual actions are ethical. Morally, it is inappropriate to cheat on your committed partner, lie to get someone to sleep with you, force yourself on anyone, or engage in any non-consensual sex act that physically or emotionally harms yourself or others.

Gluttony
Gluttony is the inability to control how much food and drink you indulge in on a regular basis. It is commonly associated with eating until you're stuffed, uncomfortable, nauseated, or unhealthily unfit or obese.

Gluttony is a sin that has been condemned throughout the ages. For example:
Plato espoused the idea that the desire from physical pleasure is animalistic behavior, beneath humans, who were created in God's image. He encouraged his readers to let go of bodily pleasures and pursuits and instead focus on feeding the soul.
In his epic poem, The Faerie Queene, Edmund Spenser depicted each of the seven deadly sins. He personified Gluttony as "loathsome" and as a "deformed creature." He criticizes Gluttony for eating more than his fair share of food, when poor people go without. In Spencer's uncompromising critique, Gluttony vomits for the sheer excess, but eats and drinks still, looking "more like a monster than a man."
In the Purgatory section of Dante's The Divine Comedy, gluttons are surrounded by fresh water and bounteous fruit trees, which they must look at but cannot consume. This deprivation is meant to cause sinners to redirect their love away from sensual pursuits and back to spiritual ones.

You scored 6 on the deadly sin of Gluttony, which means that you feel a greater allure toward this sin than the average test taker does. Your higher score is a sign that overindulging may have become a way of life for you, rather than an occasional splurge. If you find that your gluttonous impulses are detracting from your energy level or your health, or if food and drink are simply taking up too much of your mental and spiritual space, or suppressing other problems, you may want to consider applying the antidote to Gluttony: Restraint.

Restraint as an Antidote to Gluttony
Restraint, moderation, self-control. These are the qualities that best help to curb chronic overeating or other unhealthy relationships to food and drink. The Tickle Research Group found that people who score highly on Gluttony tend to admit to having low levels of self-control. Following are three ways to help develop a healthy balance between good health and healthy pleasure from food and drink:
Try to avoid needless temptation. Turn the channel or mute the TV or radio during commercials to avoid excess images of food. Try not to read food magazines or cookbooks solely for diversion or entertainment. Don't go to the grocery store when you're hungry and likely to buy more than you need.
Only eat when you're actually hungry, and when you start to feel the slightest bit full, stop. Overeating leads to health problems, digestive problems, and general sluggishness. You can always eat more if you get hungry later.
When consuming alcohol, try to avoid drinking so much that you're "wasted," which can lead to weight gain, liver failure, alcoholism, and a barrage of other health problems. Try never to drink to the point that you're physically ill. Limiting the number of drinks you have and how often you drink can give you the space to enjoy drinking without it becoming gluttonous.

Pride
Pride is the exaggeration of your worth and power in an attempt to feel superior to others. It causes you to feel like you have to be the best at everything, which can get in the way of your ability to connect respectfully and equally with others.

The sin of Pride has been condemned in various cultures throughout history. For example:
In Native American spirituality, it is believed that perfection, or the attempt to achieve it, angers the gods. Thus, when beading or weaving, some tribes make sure to introduce a tiny error into their crafts as a sign that they understand they are mere humans.
In ancient Greek mythology, Daedalus fashions a pair of wings with wax in order to allow himself and his son Icarus to escape imprisonment. But when Icarus tries to fly too high, forgetting that he is a mere mortal, the sun melts the wax and he plummets into the sea.
In the Biblical story of Adam and Eve, the pair eats from the Tree of Knowledge in an attempt to be more like God. Their punishment for their prideful act is a life of toil.

You scored 6 on the deadly sin of Pride. This means you're less tempted by this sin than the majority of other test takers. Your relatively low score indicates that you may not gravitate toward this deadly sin, or that you're able to hold it in check for the good of yourself and those around you. Your lower score on Pride indicates that you, for the most part, are avoiding the trap of believing you're invincible and unequaled in talent, which can lead to trouble. Still, temptation is always around the corner. To continue keeping your temptation in check, you may want to balance Pride with its antidote: Humility.

Humility as the Antidote to Pride
Because it's often difficult to spot your own arrogance, even if others are trying to point it out, it can be especially helpful to be proactive in addressing your Pride. Sometimes the universe takes care of this for you, by subjecting you to a humbling experience — such as loss, illness, or pain — in order to remind you of your mortality.

Still, traditional religious thought has always advocated fostering a certain degree of humility. While humility has been underrated by modern thought, equated with low self-esteem or feelings of inferiority, being humble does not necessarily have to take on these negative connotations. Here are some ways you can foster healthy humility:
Try not to do things solely to be recognized for your achievement. Instead, do what reaps the best outcome for yourself and others, and what brings you actual pleasure and fulfillment.
Don't let praise or criticism rule your actions. Instead, make choices based on what's kind to yourself and others.
Resist feeling superior or inferior based on physical appearance or ability, wealth, or intelligence, because this requires you to put undue importance on attributes that are fragile at best and deceptive at worst.
Don't deny your faults or rationalize your mistakes. Recognizing your moments of selfishness, deceptiveness, or cruelty is the only way you can change your future behavior.

Sloth
Sloth is the resounding lack of motivation that leads to procrastination, irresponsibility, and disengagement from life. It manifests as a lack of goals or direction in life, and the inability to pursue the things you want, as well as things that can enhance the greater good of the world.

Sloth is a sin that has been warned against throughout time. For example:
In Dante's epic poem The Divine Comedy, the 13th century poet described sloth as the "failure to love God with all one's heart, all one's mind, and all one's soul." He described this love of the flesh over the spirit as being lazy, cowardly, complacent, irresponsible, and unimaginative.
In the Talmud, the holy book of ancient laws and traditions that are the foundation for Orthodox Judaism, one's good intentions and efforts are supremely valued. While the slothful person can sometimes feel like there's so much wrong with the world that their efforts can't hope to make a difference, Jewish teachings put forth the belief that helping one person is the same as helping the entire world. In this light, neglecting the needs of someone or actively hurting them can be seen as neglecting or hurting the entire world.
Viktor Frankl, Holocaust survivor and the influential psychologist, identified the search for meaning as the primary motivation of human life. He claimed that we must see our lives as having meaning and direction in order to find happiness. He believed that being in mutually loving relationships, alleviating the suffering of others, and finding meaning in our actions and in life's tragedies are primary ways to achieve a fulfilling life.

You scored 5 on the deadly sin of Sloth, which is a sign that you possess more life inertia than the average test taker. Your low score on Sloth suggests you've managed to find some meaning and keep active in your life. There might still be short periods in your life, though, when it feels harder to focus or get started. If ever this is the case, try taking steps toward Sloth's antidote: Enthusiasm.

Enthusiasm as the Antidote to Sloth
Neglecting to make good use of your body, your mind, and your spirit is the highway to Sloth. The Tickle Research Group found that people who score highly on Sloth tend to admit to having low levels of enthusiasm; enthusiasm is perhaps the most rewarding route to diligence, which is historically viewed as the antidote to Sloth. Thus, fostering enthusiasm and a positive attitude can help get you off the couch and back into the thrust of life.

Here are some ways you can develop a healthy level of enthusiasm:
Fake it 'till you make it. Some studies have shown that simulating a behavior can help engrain that behavior into a person's personality and tendencies. In this light, laziness begets laziness, but behaving as if you are excited by life can help you actually feel excited by life. For the next week, try taking thoughtful but immediate action on anything that comes up, instead of sitting on things and letting them resolve themselves — for better of for worse.
Volunteer your time to help those less fortunate than you. Doing good for others and coming into contact with people who are overcoming great obstacles can help give you perspective and inspire you to do the same in your own life.
Be proactive. Make a list of five things you'd like to do in your lifetime, pick the one that seems the most exciting to you, and take one step a week toward that goal. Pick something that seems fun, even if it's something you never think you could really do. Think big, but start small. If you've always wanted to climb Mt. Everest, start by walking every day — to work, to the store, around the block.

Envy
Envy is the obsession with the good fortune of others in comparison to your own life. It is commonly experienced as a feeling of anguish when others have a higher social status, greater wealth, more power or success, or superior talent or physical beauty — and this emotion starts to dominate your existence.

Envy is a sin that has been warned against throughout human history. For example:
In Jewish and Christian theology, it is told that Satan himself was first one of God's angels, but he envies God's power and thus leads a rebellion to overthrow him. When Satan is unsuccessful, he is cast from heaven into hell. Satan's distorted sense of self-worth leads him to foolish action, which causes him to be cast into perpetual anguish and sorrow.
In the Old Testament, the ultimate dangers of envy are portrayed in the story of Cain and Abel, Adam and Eve's sons. Cain brings God an offering of some of the fruit he has harvested, but Abel gives God the choicest cuts of meat from the animals he's raised. God is more pleased by the offerings of Abel than of Cain, because Abel gave God the best of what he had, but Cain did not. Cain envies Abel his good fortune and his approval from God, and thus Cain kills his brother in the field. It was within Cain's power to improve his own status, but he chooses instead to envy Abel and murder him to prevent him from enjoying what he has.
In William Shakespeare's play Othello, the character of Iago envies Othello's power and success, and covets his beautiful and adoring wife, Desdemona. He's particularly indignant of Othello's success because Othello is a black Moor, who Iago deems unworthy of a white, Christian wife. Iago schemes to convince Othello that Desdemona is unfaithful to him, setting off a tragic chain of events that leads to Othello murdering his loving and innocent wife, and then instantly regretting his actions. While Iago's actions don't get him any more of the success and love that he so envied, Iago is still pleased that Othello will no longer have what he can't.

You scored 4 on the deadly sin of Envy, which indicates that you feel less tempted by this sin than the average test taker. Your low score means that you likely refrain from focusing too much on what others have, and at the same time you probably don't spend too much time worrying about what you don't have. But because envy is such an insidious sin, it still can't hurt to head off envy by fostering the antidote to Gluttony: Gratitude.

Gratitude as an Antidote to Envy
Being grateful for what we have in life and appreciating the kindnesses of others are crucial combatants of rampant Envy. The Tickle Research Group found that people who score highly on Envy tend to admit to having low levels of Gratitude. Following are three ways to help develop a healthy, gracious attitude toward life:
Count your blessings. Focus on all of the things you do have going for you in life. Make a list of everything you have that you enjoy — particular relationships, talents, wealth, health, etc. When doing this, it can be helpful to focus first on the basics that many people around the world don't have: I have access to clean drinking water, I have enough food to eat, I have a shelter over my head, I have people in my life who care deeply about me, etc.
Delight in the success of others, rather than envying them. Congratulate them, and don't compare their lives to your own. When you feel happy for the success of others, you generate positive energy around yourself and build stronger connections with those around you. Both of these things are more likely to get you to where you want to be that negative feelings and resentments.
Consider those who are even less fortunate than you instead of those who are more fortunate. Be careful not to delight in the misfortune of others when doing this, but instead have compassion for them, and perhaps try to help them, while at the same time allowing them to remind you of how very fortunate you are.

Wrath
Wrath is the inability to control your temper and the destructive expression of your anger toward others. At its worst, a tendency toward excessive Wrath can lead you to get angry quickly and easily, causing difficulty in refraining verbal attacking or physical abusing the object of your rage.

The sin of Wrath has been warned against throughout time. For example:
In Homer's epic poem The Iliad, Achilles' rage is a central theme. He is by far the greatest warrior in the Trojan War, able to fight back full armies single-handedly. Yet when he feels his honor has been insulted, he refuses to fight, leading to the deaths of many of his fellow soldiers. His rage leads to profound grief, and eventually to recognition of the carnage that resulted from his Pride and resulting Wrath.
In the Hebrew Bible, Moses led the Israeli slaves to freedom. When they complained of hunger and thirst and exhaustion from wandering in the wilderness for so long, he lost his temper with them. Because of his Wrathful response, God denied access to the Promised Land.
Jesus preached that you should "Love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:44). Even while Jesus himself was being executed, he prayed for the forgiveness of those responsible for his death.

You scored 3 on the deadly sin of Wrath, which indicates that this sin is less of a problem for you than it is for the average test taker. Your low score demonstrates that Wrath is generally not negatively impacting your emotional state or your relationship with others. If at times, though, you find that your anger is creeping up in intensity, you may want to consider applying the antidote to Wrath: Forgiveness.

Forgiveness as an Antidote to Wrath
When you are in the grips of anger, it can be difficult to have perspective on a situation, and this allows the people involved to control your emotional state and responses. While forgiveness can seem to some like a relinquishing of control, in actuality it can allow you to release resentments and free yourself from chronic negative feelings, which can in turn refresh your outlook on life and allow you to focus your energies on something other than anger and resentment. The Tickle Research Group found that people who score highly on Wrath tend to admit to having low levels of Forgiveness. Following are three things you can do to achieve greater forgiveness:
Consider people's intentions. If someone accidentally hurts your feelings, damages your property, or gets in between you and something you want in life, take some time to consider their motivations. If you trust that they can be self-aware and truthful, ask them directly what their intentions are. Sometimes a miscommunication (or a lack of communication altogether) can lead to anger that needlessly builds and festers over time
Be quick to forgive small transgressions. If someone cuts you off in traffic, snaps at you at the end of a long hard day, or does something else that leads to minimal damage, try not to hold on to your anger. It only hurts you, and if it becomes a matter of habit to get angry easily, you will find yourself spending all of your energy feeling wrathful instead of joyous and content.
Try to address long-standing anger. Write a letter to the person your angry at, explaining everything that happened (from the limitations of your perspective). Explain why you felt the way you did, and how it's impacted your life since. Then try to muster genuine compassion for what that other person may have been going through at the time, and write out of a place of loving, divine forgiveness. Whether you decide to send the letter or simply release your feelings, your forgiveness can allow you to let go and move forward

Legendary Punishment for the 7 Deadly Sins

Religious thought has it that in ancient times, each of the seven deadly sins was thought to have a specific, corresponding punishment in Hell. They are as follows:

The prideful person was broken on the wheel.

The greedy person was soaked in boiling oil.

The slothful person was thrown into a pit of snakes.

The lustful person was smothered in fire and brimstone.

The wrathful person was dismembered alive.

The gluttonous person was force-fed rats, toads, and snakes.

The envious person was put in freezing water.

The antidotes above provide you with a good alternative to these punishments. So use this modern take on an age-old approach not to think of yourself as particularly sinful, but to really reflect on how you can better your life and become happier.

History Behind the Test

In the 6th century, Pope Gregory the Great was the first to describe the seven deadly sins. He ranked them as follows (from the most serious to the least): pride, envy, wrath, sloth, greed, gluttony, and, finally, lust. While later theologians balked at the idea of ranking sins in this way, Pope Gregory determined the position of each sin based on how much of an obstacle it poses to love.

Your Right Job Report

Your Right Job Report

Faidzal, based on your unique skill set, the #1 right job for you is a:

Graphic Artist
Avg. salary: $62,000 - $81,000

Your runner-up jobs are: Avg. salary:
Civil engineer $83,000 - $95,000
Firefighter $27,000 - $45,000
Optician $31,000 - $42,000
Home builder $38,000 - $48,000
Computer network specialist $92,000 - $145,000
Cook / chef $29,000 - $34,000
Forest worker $44,000 - $64,000

Why These Jobs Work For You
Your ability to focus helps you come up with innovative solutions. You show great attention to detail and can spend hours perfecting the small parts of any assignment. You're a quick learner when it comes to understanding how things work. This helps you stay focused so that you do not get lost in the big picture. You are a methodical type who appreciates getting the job done the right way.

Research has shown that people whose personalities are well-suited to their job environments are happier and more successful. Remember, your Right Jobs were selected because they are good matches for your career personality — they would allow you to exercise the qualities mentioned above. They are not based on the skills you already have, or would need to perform those jobs. Those are things you can learn along the way.

That said, here's a description of the Right Job that is the best statistical match to your career personality. If you don't like the sound of it, you can do a bit more research on the runner-up jobs that match your personality almost as well.

Graphic artists combine their artistic skills and vision for commercial purposes. As a graphic artist, you would typically be responsible for designing logos, book and CD covers, web sites, posters, and other publicity and promotional items. Instead of relying exclusively on traditional art tools, you would use computers to create this art.

Graphic artists meet with their clients to determine the needs of the project. Then, they must communicate these ideas through their art. Your challenge would be to translate the client needs and message into visual displays — whether on a cereal box, cover of a book, or web page. You might also have to show your client several rounds of ideas that use various designs, patterns, and colors before the client approves a piece or artistic direction.

Even though you don't need a degree in graphic design to make it in this business, you do need a portfolio. Graphic designers use portfolios to show clients samples of their best work. Typically, you would create your portfolio during your training or while receiving a bachelor's degree or professional certificate in graphic design.

The graphic design world relies on computers and software, so it's important to be proficient in the popular graphic design software packages.

Successful graphic artists may advance to become art directors or managers of a company's design department. Some graphic artists prefer to freelance, pitching clients on their own without the backup of a company behind them.

Although the work environment of a graphic artist is the best fit for your career personality, that is not to say you won't be happy in another job. In fact, there are plenty of careers that could use your personality's strengths. Graphic artist was the highest statistical match for your personality characteristics. Look to the right for some other jobs that scored high and would be a great fit for you.

In addition to discovering what career best fits you, Tickle has provided some information about how to best fit your career goals with your lifestyle needs. After all, your career can take on many forms, and it is important to know what best works for you.

Why These Jobs Fit Within Your Lifestyle
You're shooting for the moon and won't stop until you get there. You enjoy the high life and seek glamour and excitement. You want a leadership position that has both stability and prestige. Having the best is important to you, and you always opt for quality over quantity.

You are proud of your accomplishments and want your possessions to reveal that you've done well in life. After all, you are willing to work hard to advance in your career.

You have impeccable taste and know the trends. Because your status needs are high, be prepared to work long hours to climb to the top. This ambition may make it difficult to sustain successful long-term relationships, but a like-minded partner can become your ally in your pursuits and enjoy with you the fruits of your labor.

You may have already landed your dream job. Congratulations! But most people are still waiting to find the best job for their career personality.

Remember that wherever you are in your career — even if you're already in the job you want to keep for the rest of your life, you can't always control when or how the nature of your job might change, or how the goals of your company might evolve. But you can control the kinds of jobs you look for. That's why it's just as important to know your Wrong Job, as it is to know your Right Job.

To figure out what your Wrong Job is, we inverted the calculations for your Right Job. That means that the personality dimensions on which you scored the lowest contributed to our analysis of the Wrong Job for you.

Wrong Job
Faidzal, if you want to avoid your wrong Job, don't be an:

Underwriter
Why shouldn't you be an underwriter? Remember it's not all about the skills you have or don't have. The Right Job for you is the job that suits your personality best. For true job satisfaction, your job environment needs to match your personality.

Beyond the daily tasks of an insurance underwriter — accepting or rejecting insurance applications, examining client insurance risks, and assigning value to property — underwriters are driven by efficiency. They like things to run smoothly and with as few hitches as possible. They are also detail oriented and disorder will lead to their downfall. These are just some of the reasons you wouldn't find life as an underwriter very satisfying — why it's the Wrong Job for you.

We've already discussed your Right Job and your Wrong Job, but you still might be wondering, more specifically, how we found them. While you were taking the test, we determined your scores on six different personality dimensions. No one dimension is any better or worse than the others, but each one is quite distinct and offers insights into your unique combination of attributes, outlooks, and sensibilities.

Your Right Job is what fell out of the equation when we looked at a couple different aspects of your career personality — more specifically, your primary and secondary personality types. Your Wrong Job is what fell out of the inverse equation, what resulted from your lowest scores on the personality dimensions. But for now, let's focus on your Right Job that was determined by your career personality.

Based on the way you answered the test questions, your primary personality type is Practical, while your secondary personality type is Creative.

Knowing your type is important for a number of reasons: it will help bring to light aspects of your personality you hadn't thought about before, it will raise issues about matching your personality to a career that you might not have previously considered.

Here's an explanation of what that code and what your primary and secondary personalities mean.

Primary Classification

-Practical-
As a Practical type, you are honest and dependable. People look to you when they need the job to get done. Although this is a compliment, this also means that you may get stuck cleaning up other people's messes. You are sincere and don't believe in exaggerating your talents for the higher-ups. Your work speaks for itself. You do not mind getting your hands dirty — either figuratively or literally. As for your individualistic streak, it just makes you happier when you're working independently instead of working on a larger team.


Secondary Classification

-Creative-
As a Creative type, your ability to look at the world with a fresh perspective keeps life interesting for you and those around you. Instead of following the trends, you want to set them yourself. Establishing a routine is not your goal; you would rather go with the flow and see where your mood takes you that day. You love seeking new experiences and sensations. Your sensitive nature is often turned inward, but your passionate nature also means that you are prone to be impulsive at times.

We've figured out your Right Job, and we've calculated your Wrong Job. But the reality is there are plenty of other job concerns in between. If you do find yourself unhappy in your current employment situation, now is the time to make some changes. You can make a few adjustments in your current situation, or if things look hopeless, start to hatch a plan that will get you on track for the job you really want, the job that fits your career personality.

Knowing what we know about you as a Practical type, here are some things to watch for.

Chances are if you're unhappy on the job, you are stuck in a position where you feel your hard work is not getting noticed by the higher-ups. You know that people skills are not your strong suit, but it irks you to not get the proper recognition you deserve.

Well, now is the time to put your practical mind to work. Let your boss know about your accomplishments by creating your own progress reports. On a regular basis, note in writing how your accomplishments have positively impacted the company. As a result of your updates, you will have the satisfaction of obtaining the regular feedback you desire. Your boss will not only sit up and take notice, but he or she will not forget your new assertive style.

Ask Yourself: What Led Me to My Career Path?
On average, people make three major career changes in their lives. If you did not get it right this time, get back in the saddle and try again. To avoid repeating the same career mistakes, you may want to get introspective and ask yourself some of the following critical questions.

Did I pick this career because of my family's wishes over my own?

Everyone wants to please loved ones. Perhaps your father always wanted you to follow in his footsteps, but you always wanted to take on more risky ventures. Although your loved ones want you to have a stable career, ultimately they want you to be happy. If their approval is extremely important to you, then do your homework and come up with a concrete plan for your risky venture and demonstrate that you have the maturity and determination to realize your goals. Provide a timeframe for how long you'll give yourself before calling it quits and going the stable route. Something along the lines of, "I'll give myself five years to make it big as a rock star and if that doesn't work, I'll go to law school." Establish ground rules for how often they can ask you about your "progress." Learn to celebrate the small steps and brush aside potentially defeating remarks and "I told you sos." Remember, loved ones care and worry about you, but if they see you happy, they will eventually learn to put aside their fears.

Did I pick this job because I had low expectations for myself?

Do you think that Bill Gates and Oprah have always been free from insecurity and self-doubt? Think again. Everyone is afraid to fail, but not trying is a bigger failure than getting fired. While it may temporarily bruise the ego, it is an enriching and humbling experience to push yourself beyond your preconceived limits. So, get out of the safe and numb and plunge into uncertainty. Although it may be discomforting at first, nothing is more joyful than discovering a hidden talent or fulfilling a secret ambition. If you need to, fake the bravado and eventually it will become a part of yourself. In the end, if it does not work out, dust yourself off and be proud of your new fearless attitude. It will eventually pay off. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.


Did I pick this job because I did not want to go to school again?

It is understandable that maybe you had a bad experience in high school or college and you don't want to repeat that again. Unfortunately, some of the highest paying and self-fulfilling jobs require some type of education beyond high school or college. Obtaining a professional degree is very different from high school or college. Gone are the days of reading and writing about things you cannot relate specifically to your career. Professional degrees often are geared to train you in a certain area of expertise. You will not only gain practical experience but valuable contacts in your desired profession. So, let go of your preconceived notions of school and talk to someone who has the degree you want. If the tuition cost is scaring you, then you may have to tighten your financial belt for a few years and look into obtaining student loans. See this cost as an investment in your future. After all, you have a long career ahead of you and the initial cost will eventually be paid off.


I just don't know what I want to do! Everything and nothing sounds appealing.

Part of being an adult is knowing which opportunity doors to close and which to keep open. Making choices can be difficult, and there are no guarantees. But not making choices and saddling yourself with indecision is no picnic.

We hope the personality insights we provided you with point you in the right direction. But this is only the first step. You must do research about yourself and realistic career choices for you. Talk to as many people you know about their occupations and honestly assess whether their interests and lifestyles match yours. Your best friend may love being the artist living paycheck to paycheck, but if you always pictured yourself driving a Mercedes and joining the country club, then the bohemian lifestyle is not for you. Also, realistically evaluate the tradeoffs between your personal and professional life and what the definition of success is to you. Who has not wanted to be a journalist or news broadcaster and make millions like Katie Couric or Peter Jennings? But, do you realize that most journalists start at the way bottom in remote locations away from family and do not make millions? You may want to be a news broadcaster, but understand that most of them start out as unknowns and most stay unknown. You may be that one in a million, but make sure it is not the fame and money but rather the job that drives your ambition.

No matter your age or station in life, once you start taking steps to pursuing the dream job, you'll kick yourself for not having done this sooner. Having a goal and converting it to reality is a powerful experience. You will develop or regain self-confidence that permeates into other areas of your life. Life is too short to put up with barely tolerable situations, whether that is with your career or relationships. You'll expect better for yourself and from others. Settling instead of striving will no longer seem acceptable for you. Going to work won't seem like a chore anymore and your enthusiasm will be contagious for those around you.

Take Action!
Use your resources.
Many people don't know where to start when they're looking for a new job. Now that you know your career personality, you're already a couple steps ahead of them. But another place to look for inspiration is the want ads. Grab a newspaper, or sign onto the internet and look under job titles and career headings that are mentioned in the Right Job section of your career report.

Read all the different job descriptions in the appropriate categories, and jot down responsibilities that appeal to you. Take a look at your list when you're done, and see if you can recognize patterns of duties you like. Or, just string all the responsibilities together in one block so next time someone asks you, you can tell them you're looking for a job that includes either some, or all of those responsibilities.

Another great way to look, is to research different kinds of companies. Take a look at a business magazine of a news weekly. They have annual review of the top companies to work for. Even if you don't want to work for a huge computer company, maybe there are aspects of the work environment that you find appealing, and can find at a company more in line with your goals.

As we've mentioned before, we all have different sides to ourselves. Depending on the situation, someone who typically plays it safe will be up for making a riskier decision. Someone who typically thrives working on their own will excel in a group dynamic. For that reason, we wanted you to see the dominant characteristics of the remaining personality types. Here they are.

Analytical
Analytical personalities are tireless inquisitive and thoughtful. Exploring new ideas and understanding the world around them is a constant and exciting challenge.

Personable
Personable personalities are natural teachers and leaders. They possess a friendly nature and have a genuine desire to help others, which makes them valuable members of society.

Strategic
Strategic personalities are undeniable go-getters. With diplomacy and very strong persuasive skills, they know how to get what they want in life.

Disciplined
Disciplined personalities value being conscientious and trustworthy. With their high sense of responsibility and attention to detail, these types can be relied upon in any crunch or situation.

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its a webby full with quizzes and stuff..
i've done some of it and i'll be postin some of the result of me..
heh.. this will be 1 way to kill all the time i got in the office.. LOL..

MERDEKA! (duh!)

huhh..

time sure flew by fast these day!!
its already september and it seem too long im not contribute somethin to the blog pages.. dunno is it me or everybody else.. i just dont have enuf time to open the pages, login in and write somethin.. haha.. seem it was only a couple of simple steps eh..

so, whats new stuff happenin in my life for august? hmm.. nothin new actually.. just got my salary increased started this month.. and my lovely wife got the big news where she will be workin in the new resort openin on march next year.. she got it.. yeah.. both news will bring up our house income and this only mean 1 thing.. i got to buy MORE things next year.. yahoo!!.. haha..

another thing happened last month is i had made a lil kenduri at my new house.. its on 31 august.. a public holiday and the guests are flowin in like air yg mencurah2.. hahaha.. actually we've planned to have this kenduri long time ago.. as we move in the house on may, but the thing drag on and on.. till last month when we got extra money in our hands.. hehe..

hmm.. what else?

aha.. i've decided to set my target to buy a new car when we settled the lil kelisa next 2 years.. yep.. its next 2 year.. and i already set the target.. hahah.. such a loser.. and i've told it to my wife that i will get the car no matter whatever happen.. the car is a fully imported turbocharged subaru impreza wrx.. heheh.. call me idiot!.. i surf the webby and joined a couple of car club.. the car now priced at RM135k for a new one.. and im hoping for the next 2 years, the car price will drop a lot more and at that time i got the money to buy that car.. hehe.. i'll post a couple of pics of that car after this..

think thats enuff for now..

cya..